Thx Blain and Yoyo.
it was this line in the post from the legendary days from tuesday which make me think like this.
"Your mission! Activate her and prove yourself to her! Make her want to stay with you! Beware, she might not be present again! To help you in this, we added legendary gifts, with 4x times bigger rates!"
Sounded like they gave extra those special gift´s to make her stay. But if she stays without pushing her affection level it is perfekt. Now she only has to drop.
Got 2 gift´s until now. They may be usefull :-)