While yes, there is little incentive to help ME leave the game - and I was a Silver member for ~18 months, and gold for ~4 - I haven't renewed in a few months, and will not again - there IS an element of basic customer service, an element of 'thank you for your contributions thus far' - and most of all, a fully Max'd Club (#9 on the Nutaku server - therefore a bunch of people who DO pay to use the game) who are also pissed off over how unnecessarily painful this has been. Clearly I'm not going to go quietly, so if they need to flick a few buttons to remove someone gracefully who won't cause MORE problems and cause grief to 39 other Club Members, that's a pretty small investment in time.
Simply put, as for 'why help someone leave' - because if this can't be resolved properly, I'll just sew more discontent - and THAT is bad for business.
For your other suggestions - I have emailed Jessie directly - Ignored. I have posted on Discord - Ignored.
And my life certainly doesn't revolve around the game (since I'm quitting the game, but not my life), but I have put in 3+ years, a few hundred dollars, and at one time around L340, was the #4 ranked XP player on the server. My Club is a high ranking one with members appropriate to my level. Given that Club upgrades cost Kobans, it makes this all the more bothersome - Club Members have contributed significantly into the development... and this blatant disregard is just a slap in the face, IMO.